I asked a girl out and this was her response. What does this mean?

Here is her response when I asked her out. I am very flattered that you asked, but at the moment I am way to busy for any kind of relationship. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. I would tell any guy the exact same thing I am telling you.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • It's called the "Soft let down." That's a gentle way of saying "Absolutely not but please don't feel bad and think I'm a bitch."

    Any woman that was truly into a guy wouldn't let her schedule impact the potential for a relationship.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • It could be true. However, if her desire for you was high, she would make an exception. I am not saying she "isn't in to you".. but her interest in you is on the low side. I wouldn't hold my breath as when a guy comes along that she can't resist, she will end up making an exception for him and you will end up feeling rejected...

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What Girls Said 10

  • Okay she's not interested in dating someone because she has other priorities. ... when we say its not you the problem we mean to say that its us that have a problem because you're not interesting enough to push all the rest a side just to date you...😊its hard to accept it and im sure that you may not like it but thats is the reason and thats what it means...

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    • Do you think I have a chance with her later on?

    • Im not sure.. maybe... depends on her personal situation... i can't give a totally affirmative answer to that question... its more no than Yes in these cases. ..

  • It means what she says it means. She is too busy.

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    • Do you think I have a chance with her later on?

    • Maybe. I wouldn't hold out and wait, though. Focus on yourself or asking out someone else and if she changes her mind she will let you know.

  • She's not seeking a relationship

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    • Do you think I have a chance with her later on?

    • I'm unsure. If there are men that has shown interest in her you'd have competition. But if you knew her for longer and you're direct about liking her and such, there could be a chance

  • Not meaning to be a bitch, but she's not into it, its a line I've used and my friends have used when they don't want to hurt a guys feelings

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  • Rejection.
    Move on. Sorry, OP.

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  • Yeah, if you were the awesome guy she would fall for you tho. Damn excuses.

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  • She's not into you. Don't be too disheartened, though.

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    • Even though she said.

      I would tell any guy the exact same thing I am telling you.

    • Yeah. Just to make it sound less harsh. Trust me... save yourself from the heartbreak.

    • Ok thanks

  • She is nice, it's not mean. She respects you.

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  • She is being friendly. Rejecting you in a gentle manner. Imagine her saying, "Omg, like eww get away from me..." Okay that was overexaggerated. But you get what I'm saying.

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  • She isn't ready to be in a relationship.

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    • Do you think I have a chance with her later on?

    • Maybe, maybe not. It depends. Dont put too much hope into it.

What Guys Said 5

  • She lied, which means she's not attracted to you and doesn't respect you. Cut her out of your life and move on.

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  • Probably means she's not a very fun girl. You just asked her out. You didn't ask her to get married. Sorry dude. You probably dodged a bullet.

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  • It means exactly what she said. Do you not understand English?

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  • Noone is "too busy". It doesn't exist. She's shooting you down, easy. People who are in to you, make time

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  • Sorry but she's not into you. That's what every girl says these days

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