I have been hooking up/dating this guy. Finally told him I liked him - he was shocked. He said that he used to have a crush on me, and wanted a serious relationship, but that I was so chill he got a vibe that I was uninterested in him in that way. This is very strange to me because I thought I had made it very obvious that I liked him by hanging out, having sex, inviting him to do things with me. I even texted him a few weeks before I told him I liked him and said, "I had so much fun with you the other night. I cannot hardly stop thinking about you!" Anyways now he has started dating another girl. He said he wishes he had known I liked him sooner so we could have maybe become something. I feel so confused, and am still hoping to hear from him even though I know it is unlikely.
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Honestly.. from the sound of it he may have played you amazingly well. By this I mean that maybe he kind of wanted you as a fuck buddy/wanted it to be casual and then when you admitted you liked him he claimed that you were the one who seemed chill not him. From what you said, you made an effort to show you liked him and he didn't get that you texting him you liked him meant that you liked him. I don't get how that happens unless he is insanely dense. The only thing I can think of is that he pretty much flipped the script on you and said he thought you were casual when in reality he wanted it to be casual the whole time. The fact he is also dating another girl kind of hints at what I'm saying because if he liked you as he said he wouldn't have another girl already lined up. It sounds like he tried to come off as the good guy when in reality I think he played you. That's just my two cents but either way I'm sorry for ya.1
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