So I met this guy a little over a month ago, and we've only hooked up three times so far because he lives more than 30 minutes away. Before, he used to text me first to make plans or ask how my day is going every couple days at least. It wasn't only him initiating first because I would also always take his lead and initiate too, and he would always reply quickly and enthusiastically and keep the conversation going. However, after the last time we had sex a little over a week ago, he never texted me, so I texted him four days later asking how his week was going, and he again replied in five minutes and kept the conversation going. It's been four or five days now, and no initiation from him. Should I text him again, or just wait for him? Our initiation is now about 50/50, but I don't want to come off as too clingy because I really like this guy. What should I do?
Why doesn't he text me first anymore?
What Guys Said 1
Come off as yourself, you are going to have to be that anyway at some point. If you want to text him text him, if its clinging he can either like that, who you are, or not. At some point in the relationship you are going to have to be yourself and ask of him what you need him to do to make you happy. You might as well start now.2
What Girls Said 2
I think you should reach out again, but this time ask him to go out with you to do something. Make it casual but fun (examples: going bowling or ice skating or go kart racing or a picnic). At the end of hanging out, say I had a fantastic time today and if you ever want to do this again just let me know. That gives him the indication that he has to initiate it next time.0
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