I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We both live pretty far from each other, so we've only hung out twice. The first time, he took me on the best date of my life. the next time, I stayed at his place, we went to the movies and dinner. Woke up to him making me breakfast. Both times we've hung out he's asked if I've wanted to have sex. When things have gotten hot and heavy. Me being the person I am, I said no. Because I'm a firm believer in at least waiting until I'm in a relationship with a guy. Each time I've rejected him, he says " okay. " and that's that. He always says I look pretty, or that he's glad that I'm visiting him. Both the times we have hung out, he always tries to find an excuse to extend the date. We both get along really well, he's very sweet and gentlemanly. I'm just thrown off by the fact that he's so easily asks to have sex. I definitely don't want to judge him, or make this a deciding factor on wherever or not to pursue a relationship. I just don't want to be wasting my time if he's not really looking for anything serious. I feel like it's too soon to ask... I need advice.
Most Helpful Guy
Well ask him if he wants something serious with you? and if he does, when would he like to pursue a serious relationship. If he seems to avoid answering the questions, or says not, then you know he that he just wants sex.
At the end of the day, if your not happy with something in the relationship speak up.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, its too soon to ask something like that. He is only showing you a good time in hopes you'll give him sex in return.0