Why do we do this to ourselves? lol why do girls especially good girls like bad boys? I think I'm a good girl but I do like the more adventurous guy as opposed to a good boy. But Im talking to this guy and he's on another level. He's already been to jail and he just really "out there." To be honest, it attracts me but I think its cause he is really smart, he just acts stupid. I look at it as like yes he is messing up and possibly learning his lesson little by little, but its usually the ones who get into trouble that turn out wise later, or at least SOME OF THEM. Others stay as idiots. But what is it about that "bad boy" image? To me, it's that-hes just been through life and it turns me on as opposed to someone like me who's naive.
Most Helpful Guy
I dont think you need that to experience life... a good friend of mine is probably one with the most blessed life I know (his upbringing and his own doing). he's not a bad boy by any means, but he's impressive, I've never met two of him. he's constantly had his shit together in all areas of life and wow... he's lived a full life.
If he stopped living now, hed probably have lived twice what I lived in the same timespan.
He won't need to have been through shit and come out wiser later cause he already is wise and applies it...
So I dont think its that ^^0
Most Helpful Girl
I've never intentionally dated a "bad boy." The only "bad boy" I dated was a dude who acted like the typical nice guy and turned around and went psycho.
I just don't date assholes who will hold doors for you and then bitch about how I didn't automatically give him my number either.
I like balanced dudes that don't rely on ass-kissing OR assholery to try and win my affection.2