The guy I'm dating asks me to do things with him sexually that he never asked his ex-wives or past dates to do.
Is that bad?
[he respected them, but not me]
[he loved them, but sees me as a sex object]
Is that good?
[he feels more comfortable with me than he did with them]
Most Helpful Guy
Its good, it means he cares about you and is comfortable enough with you to share his possibly embarrassing desires. Unless his requests are really demeaning to you, take it as a compliment.1