I had a great first date last night. I took her to dinner and we talked for 3 hours. She insisted on walking me home (I offered to walk her all the way but she lives well past my house so wouldn't let me), and walked a couple blocks out of her way to stay with me the whole time. The thing that threw me off is she went straight for the hug instead of giving me the opportunity to go in for the kiss. Is that weird?
Also I told her to text me when she got home safe, which she did a few minutes later and said "Home safe (thumbs up) thanks again for dinner - I had a really nice time:)"
Maybe I'm stressing over nothing, but "really nice time" sounds kinda meh?
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It just sounds like she's shy. Also, it depends how well she knows you and how much she trusts herself. If she's wanting to take things slow, try not to push it. If you wait until it happens naturally, it'll be so much more impactful. Also, among some groups of girls, it's seen as... improper to kiss on a first date. Like you're not valuing yourself or your date or, something. "Really nice time" sounds like what a happy, shy girl would say. I think she really enjoyed herself.
For me, if the date was a guy I didn't really know, I definitely wouldn't kiss on the first date. If I'd known him and liked him for a while, I might if it was a *really* good date. I'd really only kiss on a first date if I'd known him for ages (3 years or more) and liked him. Maybe she's similar?0