So 2 days ago I chatted up this random girl after we got off the bus. We go to the same uni. Once I broke the ice I told her she was pretty and if she was free right now we could grab some coffee as a mini date. She said that she was going to a friend's bday party so I asked her for her number and she gave it to me without hesitation. She genuinely seemed interested as well. I told her that I'd call her in a couple of days to set up a date to which she said ok sounds good. We hugged and parted ways. The whole convo lasted like 2-3min.
Anyway, today I called her and asked if she wanted to grab lunch on Sunday and she said she had to go sailing (there was no hesitation and who would say sailing as an excuse lol?). I asked what day was good for her and she said that she's really busy this week and doesn't know due to finals coming up (it is finals week for me too). Obviously, I'm no dummy and know that sounds like bs. I told her to call me or text when she wanted to meet up. We live nearby and use the same bus station so I know I'll eventually run into her. Should I never contact her again and wait to either run into her in person or wait until she contacts me (if she ever does)? We hardly know each other so I'm on the fence of doing this since she can easily forget about me, if I knew her better I wouldn't quetion my no contact rule. However, we're basically strangers so should I pop her a text or call her sometime next week to check how she is?
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Since you two are practically strangers flipping the script on her that soon telling her to contact you when she wants to meet most likely won't happen especially since she has no rapport with you. Give it one more shot send her a text with in the week. I get that you don't want to come off as needy but the longer you wait the more likely she'll forget about you and any little spark there might have been would be gone. Like I said there's no rapport so don't be surprised if she doesn't tx you first.1