My girlfriend and I've been dating for a few months, I'm bothered that I have sex with the same girl my cousin had. I know everyone has a past but he's my family member, it's weird!
She told me she had sex with him years ago in college. My cousin lied to me because when I met her he told me she was just a friend.
My girlfriend said was only casual, a one night stand and they never dated! I love her but I can't be with her anymore, it's awkward! What you think I should do? Try? End the relationship?
Feeling confused about breaking up because my girlfriend had sex with my cousin in the past!
Most Helpful Girl
Look, if you can't get over that, then yes, its for the best that you do breakup. Overall your cousin shouldn't have lied about it. But don't pretend like this doesn't bother you either. Because if you stay with her like this, it will just grow to get worse.
What people don't understand or refuse to understand: the past matters! One's choices wither a mistake or deliberately can shape and change the future. Whenever a person says: 'I love them' but!!!, 'I miss them' but!, etc. It means that you have to let go. Either the relationship or the transgressions/past. Nobody is telling you to stay, nobody is telling you to go. The choice is yours. You don't have to stay if you have no other reason to stay.1
Most Helpful Guy
He who controls the past commands the future, He who commands the future, conquers the past.
Now if you are a believer in the above mentioned quote you will end the relationship but if you believe it not true than you will also end the relationship
What we all say is of no consequence if you have already made up your mind, you could give her a chance and it was before you met her and she was honest since you didn't have to find it through a third party0