I met a guy online, today is his birthday according to Facebook - we aren't close, but we have been texting each other for two weeks on and off. But because we have busy schedules, we haven't met yet - so there isn't that "connection".
He "loves" all my Facebook profile pics and posts since I accepted his request. My friends told me to not wish him happy birthday because you don't even know this person, and you shouldn't appear as eager / so into him. And that I need to be different to all the girls he knows -as he is a popular guy and I should come off as I don't care as much. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
hey wishing him happy birthday is just a nice thing to do... buying him flowers, turning up at his house with a card and sending him a watch is 'eager' lol so you have nothing to worry about1
Most Helpful Girl
Wish him a H. Bday. But keep yourself open to other potential mates. Till one declares you his girlfriend.
If you have time to post pictures, he has time to show his liking, why no time to met?
If you are only focusing on him and him other girls, you will feel hurt.
I am not a social media type, I would rather meet, hang out, get to know in real life type to have real connections.
Two weeks on and off... he is not interested. No one is so busy that you can't make a date, sorry to be blunt... Do you really want to be with a guy who has lots of female friends on social media?
I dont pay attention to guys who aren't giving me the attention. I drop them very soon and i dont share my social media stuff to strangers whom i havn't met yet.
I need the guy to show interest, text more, care about me. Then he has to call me, so we can talk. If this is not possible... next!!
When phone conersation goes well, be flirty, be fun, be spontanous, then find time to meet. ... dont become his text buddy.
FYI... I have success with guys. I only pay attention to those who cares about me and they want to be my boyfriend, because i am the best.
My current boyfriend was a bit of a challenged... but i have succeed.
Many, when they dont know how to deal with real people they go behind the screen.
I have to guide him how to connect with people... its working and we are both happier. He is not on social media like he used to becuase he is now focusing on me. When he think of something, I come to his mind, I keep him busy lol
Hope you find a guy who will apprciate you.