I know this seems trivial and not that important, but the last month it has really bothered me! My boyfriend of 7 months, has "single" still listed on his Facebook profile!
We live together, so we are definitely together! Im just so confused and feel super awkward bringing it up!
It shouldn't matter, because I know we are in a relationship, but when I see "single" on his page it kind of hurts!
Most Helpful Guy
Does he even use facebook? You have to realize you are the only one loosing sleep over this. I bet he's never even thought of it.1
Most Helpful Girl
In all honesty, as long as your friends and family knows that your in a relationship with him, WHY does it matter if its on social media? It is a test to PROVE your relationship? Not so much asking you, but for everybody who finds it important. He's not doing anything wrong. And I find this to be very immature of people to allow social media and the people on it to validate ones relationships. Your boyfriend from what I see is just a very private person. And that should be respected. If you want to post things up on your account and he allows it, then you do it. But that other person does not. This is a dating relationship, not a marriage. And even if you are married to each other. Nobody has to know about your business.
Overall if he forgot to change it, then he forgot. If he doesn't want to, then he doesn't want to. And even if he tells you why he doesn't want to. What is going to be the ending result? Either you have understanding and accept what he says, or will this put your relationship on ice? Let alone at odds with him. Regardless of what you think. You have to remember that whatever choice you make will either make you or break you. There is no need to be so overly concerned with social media as long as he wants to remain in this relationship with you. He is discussing a future with you that he wants to share. Don't allow social media to dictate your life. Or like the many stories you hear on the news, it can crush the possible blessing you may ever have.0