I have known this guy for a few years now, when we met at first we were just friends but he wanted more from me. I wasn't ready for anything with him cause I was not over the last guy. So we stopped all contact until one day and we ended up cuddling so I ran away. The next time we met was half a year afterwards when he wanted to meet and we ended up making out. There is just this weird thing that I think his breath smells and he has too dry lips... I took it as a sign I should end things with him, I mean, why would those things bother me if he was right for me?
Now a year has passed and I wanted to talk to him, he wanted too so we met and things got again to a weird situation, this time much further. I like him a lot but I still think he smells and he has too dry lips, kissing him doesn't feel like kissing the guy I was crazy about...
But I think I like him also, do you think I should continue with him even if our kisses are bad or should I just ask him to be just a "cuddling"-friend for the lonely days? I really like his warm and tight hugs... But maybe i should stop bothering him and leave him alone? He is so sweet and cute that I almost cried out loud when he asked me: what is wrong?
I wouldn't want to be in a friends with benefits relationship because I am after the right person to date, not just someone to jump into bed with... with him i almost did it.
I have never been in a relationship and I don't really know if I am ever gonna be in one if I am this critical...
- Leave him, kisses should be good0% (0)8% (1)4% (1)Vote
- Try it, see where it goes31% (4)23% (3)27% (7)Vote
- Just cuddle0% (0)8% (1)4% (1)Vote
- friends with benefits, just don't kiss him0% (0)8% (1)4% (1)Vote
- Tell him46% (6)38% (5)42% (11)Vote
- Be lonely and find someone better at kissing8% (1)0% (0)4% (1)Vote
- Other?15% (2)15% (2)15% (4)Vote