I see so many gorgeous girls who are nice and sweet but then i hear that they've never been on a date before. I don't get it? Is it because guys assume that they're taken or does it have to do with something else? For example i see less atractive girls (sounds so mean i'm sorry) who are nice as well who go on dates all the time or are in long relationships!
Most Helpful Guy
Most men will automatically disqualify themselves by assuming she has millions of options and / or is already taken , or will shoot him in a nasty , offhand manner. Also men fear coming off as predatory ( see this blog post edumckaytion.com/blog/men-notice-women-anymore/ ) , as men are demonized very heavily these days.
Unfortunately , when I used to work as door staff , there were too many attractive on the outside , that were very ugly and mean on the inside. This perpetuates the " attractive girls are , mean , stuck up bitches " stereotype. There are some that are sweet , but sadly the minority.1
Most Helpful Girl
I recognize this a lot! I normally get a lot of compliments on my looks but when I go out to a bar not many nice guys will actually talk to me, they only look. The ones that do normally come up to me are most of the time the very macho type ones or weird guys. I think it has to do with being less approachable, especially when you're not the most outgoing extraverted type yourself1