I'm not used to "dating" and doing the normal "getting to know each other" then get in a relationship. There is someone in the picture. It looks like we're just getting to know each other and we might end up dating. I do have a thing for him but it seems like our lifestyles are not compatible. However, I know that you have to vulnerable and give people a chance but sometimes its the wrong thing to do. So how do you know when to give someone a chance? Me and him seem really different yet we are attracted to each other. I feel like being in a relationship with him will be a waste of time because our lifestyles will eventually destroy it. But what if I miss out on something really good? Even though we're different, maybe it'll just work? I don't wanna judge him right away but then in reality, it just looks like a relationship between us is not in the cards.
How do you know when to give someone a chance?
What Guys Said 1
Do or do not. There is no try.0
What Girls Said 1
Well your the only one who can make that choice. If you feel that being in a relationship with him will be a waste of time, then don't date him. Nobody can tell you what to do, or make you do something that you don't want to do. You have to make judgements because what you two do with either make or break. And that is just common sense. If you can't handle dating now. Then you can't handle it. However you can't just be vulnerable to any and everybody. Matter of fact you only do so when your married. These days you cannot take chances with anybody, that can be life risking as well. So my advice to you is this: If you do want to date him. Don't get emotionally attached so quickly. Only do so if you really want to give him a try at least once. I mean, if you two are already dating. I say that if you still feel not ready, don't do it no matter how much you may want it. See if he's willing to give you some time. If not, then aw well. A person who is serious about you would at least try to wait if he equally feel as attracted to you and sees a future with you.0
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