It's easy for a guy to use his game on girls he sees as random and unimportant or for girls to use that game of making a guy chase when he's just like the rest but when it comes to someone you find really attractive whether it be their looks or their personality or both do you drop the game thats worked so well for you or do you stay true to the game even if it means possibly alienating someone you could have the everything with?
Most Helpful Girl
You'll have done it already anyway, then they get hooked, and once they're hooked whoever it is they'll stay anyway so you can drop it regardless of who it is.0
Most Helpful Guy
I think it's better to be a guy who just talks to girls as a part of life. And I also think it's better for a guy to be playful/flirtatious with women, in general (within respectable limits). Like it's ok to tease women you're not attracted to/are married/have a boyfriend like you would tease your sister. When you tease your sister you don't tease her to fuck her lol. You do so for the fun of it and girls can pick up on that if you tease in that way.
So you're never really turning "make her fall in love with you" game on. It's just who you are, because you flirt with girls all the time. It's better because:
1. You'll be "real" and more comfortable in your own skin. By putting on a show for a girl you think is hot you are in many ways, just being fake. Because that's not the real you. That's you when you're trying to get your dick wet. When you make this a part of who you are you can just be yourself and open up and it will just come across the way you want/feel without thinking. You won't have to switch yourself "on".
2. You'll live a happier life, because you'll be able to just relax and be yourself without feeling like you have to maintain a persona. Plus, being real is the quickest way to get to know people and make friends. People feel like they know you early on and join in on your fun.
3. You'll make everyone feel good, just by your presence. When you're just a guy that makes people feel good, because that's who you are people just want to be around you. Meaning in the longrun.. more girls : ). But don't do it for the girls. Do it because you want to.0