My boyfriend is moving to NYC for university and I am worried because I know the types of girls that are there are usually half naked or scantily clad & it worries me. We've been together for over two years and I've been cheated on before by my ex twice & my current boyfriend I love very much & I know I can't go through that again. I keep seeing recent Halloween images of the girls there in NYC and some are even topless. It really worries me. Also because he's going to be alone, at school and working he's going to be busy so he and I won't talk as much so I'll never know?
Worried about my boyfriend meeting someone new?
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My boyfriend lives in his luxury apt in NYC makes hell a lot of money. What you worry about your college boyfriend is really nothing compare to mine lol
Unless your boyfriend loves to go out to clubs and bars, I wouldn't worry.
It's not like people in NYC just grab someone random and ask for their number. A lot of young souls out there and dating scenes every night but as long as he loves you and he's not that kind of guy who would go out of his way to cheat on his girlfriend... he wouldn't.
But I know where exactly you coming from.
What I do to make my insecurity go away is just trust him and know that there's no girl out there like me who can be a cute pretty loving caring sexy girlfriend for him lol just never show him insecurity or jealous side of you. Keep being the best girlfriend. If some girls try to talk to him, let them. He will eventually know there's no girl like you. If he leaves you for stupid random girl he found that's his huge loss.
Like you need to have this kind of attitude to deal with insecurity, jealousy. But most importantly trust him.
And if he's being too busy/acting distant, have a sit down talk. We all know that NOBODY is too busy for their girlfriend.
I dated freaking busy docs, lawyers from large firm in NYC and I know this from my own. when a guy gives you a busy be excuse, it's a major bullshit.0
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