I am a 20 year old virgin and have never been kissed or had a relationship etc. This is mainly because I have never desired a relationship or sex with any random guy. However I constantly have people trying to set me up with someone, thinking it is odd that I am this age and have never been with anyone. I feel people judging me for this will only get worse as I get even older. How do I not feel the pressure to be in a relationship due to this even if I am in the same situation in a decade?
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People can say whatever they want but you are the one who decide what you are going to do and you are who's going to have to deal with the consequences of your actions. When someone tells me to do something that I don't want to do first I tell myself "I am the captain of my ship and the master of my fate" and then I usually give them the finger (although I don't recommend giving someone the finger cause one time I gave my then boss the finger and he almost beat the sh*t out me luckily he didn't because there were witnesses). Anyways next time someone tries to set you up with someone ask them what they would be willing to do for you if you got pregnant or an std that 'll stop them from trying to set you up with someone.