Talking to those who are in or have been in long distance relationships that STARTED long distance.
Currently in this situation. And I feel like he's waiting until he flies me down to see him next month to make anything "official" even if neither of us are entertaining anyone else currently.
Like we'll send each other "memes" about being a boyfriend or girlfriend but we've never like officially talked about it.
We've talked a lot about future plans and it's always "us/we" so I don't know.
Most Helpful Guy
Don't think labels the terms will naturally evolve, when it feels right you will feel comfortable using the term GF/BF - Take a step back and think about when you meet someone and click becoming friends, is it 37 minutes into your 4th conversation that you say that you are friends, no just one day you start talking about that person as your "Friend" - It is the same with relationships.4
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend and I didn't start or at any point have to be long-distance but.. we did still DTR. We went through the whole thing of referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend indirectly, the 'we' and 'us' business. I still felt like sitting down and making it clear that we're both cool with being exclusive and have similar long-term goals in respect to the relationship was super important before I let myself get any more emotionally invested, though. Which I'm happy about having done, and think it's something that would be especially important if you're in a LDR.0