You meet the sweetest person ever that has all the qualities you want, but you're not physically attracted to them at all. Will getting to know them make that go away? Can you learn to find that person attractive as you get to know them?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think so, which is often unfortunate.
I believe we can become more attracted to people we already feel some attraction for, but if we feel no attraction, then sadly we can't force it. Best to do this person a favor and not get with him/her.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes it can. That's exactly what happened with me.
He's my boyfriend now and I love him, and I think he's hot... now lol.
When I first met him, he wasn't my type at all! But he just kept trying and he's such a nice guy, everything I've wanted in guy in terms of personality.
I didn't force the physical attraction, it kind of just happened, I was so smitten by him and his personality that it changed my mindset of what is my type.
So yes, you can learn to find that person attractive as you get to know them.0