Guys, those who have been hurt in the past. What is it now about labels that scare you?

So for instance you were in a long term relationship and they left you, maybe you were also unhappy in that relationship but none the less you were sad when they left.
You want a relationship again and am seeing someone who pretty much your in a relationship with the only thing missing now is the title.. what is it about the title that's so scary and how to overcome that?

Updates:
1mo Sorry by label and title I meant "boyfriend and girlfriend"

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  • Im not sure what you mean by title or label.

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    • 1mo

      Sorry i mean the title of boy friend and girlfriend

  • Titles are good. It identifies the boundaries of the relationship agreement. Someone who rejects the title, also rejects the function and guidelines of a relationship. People either reject the institution and thus the titles associated, or they reject the titles because they reject the responsibility but do not reject the institution.

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  • huh?

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