I recently got out of a 3 year relationship and I now have a friend with benefits mostly for comfort reasons I don't have feelings for him though he's a good person and my thought is that when I'm ready to start dating someone that whoever I date will judge me when they find out because I am a very honest person. So I guess my question is if your found out a girl had a friend with benefits would it be a deal breaker?
Would you date a girls who has or has had a friend with benefits?
What Guys Said 17
If she had them in the past, no, it wouldn't be a deal breaker... but obviously that would have to stop the second we started dating or I'd be out of there so quick.1
It's a nice relationship as long as one party doesn't get too attached. I would imagine that it's a little better to come from a cute guy giving you head than doing it on your own with a vibe. I know from experience that it's nicer than masturbation (usually)1
I don't care at all and it makes no difference to me.1
Her honesty means lot to me and no it wouldn't be a turn off that she had a friends with benefits but she would need to know.. I want a real relationship
that would result in something serious. I don't do friends with benefits.1
I don't care what she did in the past so long as she's disease free and baggage free.1
If I already like you otherwise; then, why the fuck would I give a shit?1
no, women crave sex as much as men do0
I would not date someone with a friend with benefit.0
Would you date a guy who got scammed by fake prostitutes and online dating?1
I don't date girls regardless of whether or not she has or had a friend with benefits0
Ya maybe I could get that going.0
What Girls Said 6
Try building a friendship. When you look for love it usually doesn't end well, you know what I mean? If you're taking good physical care of yourself ain't nobody's business. Just have fun and enjoy yourself.1
Yeah, I wouldn't care, the past is the past. I used to have a friend where each time we'd run into each other at a party, we would always end up kissing and messing around in bed at some point. It didn't mean anything lol, just a good time.0
ya , I'll with her and break up with her the friendship forever0
I'm bisexual, so if a girl I'm talking to had a friends with benefits in the past and I really like her no it wouldn't , although I wouldn't feel comfortable if she lied about it or still bad this friends with benefits as just a friend , I'm a female so the answer may be different for men0
As long as you like that person and they like you back, it shouldn't matter whether or not they have. It would probably make them more jealous then mad.1
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