I recently got out of a 3 year relationship and I now have a friend with benefits mostly for comfort reasons I don't have feelings for him though he's a good person and my thought is that when I'm ready to start dating someone that whoever I date will judge me when they find out because I am a very honest person. So I guess my question is if your found out a girl had a friend with benefits would it be a deal breaker?
Most Helpful Guy
It's a nice relationship as long as one party doesn't get too attached. I would imagine that it's a little better to come from a cute guy giving you head than doing it on your own with a vibe. I know from experience that it's nicer than masturbation (usually)1
Most Helpful Girl
Try building a friendship. When you look for love it usually doesn't end well, you know what I mean? If you're taking good physical care of yourself ain't nobody's business. Just have fun and enjoy yourself.1