I met this really shy girl in college in my biology class and she has been pretty confusing so far. I kind of have a feeling she has never had a boyfriend before because I asked her if she went to prom in high school and she said she didn't go. So I asked her out 2 weeks ago to the arcade and she was like "um I don't know." Then the next time we see each other she ASKS ME out to coffee and during our coffee date I ask her if she gave the arcade any more thought. She said she doesn't like to play games. The following week in class I ask her if she wants to go ice skating and she said she doesn't like to. This is normally a nice way of rejecting someone right but I didn't give up and asked her to lunch the next day and she said yes. Are these two dates actually considered dates? Did I get friendzoned?
Should I just be blunt and just say "I wanna take you on a date, when are you free?" Too blunt or should I say something else? Should I say "do you wanna go on a date with me?"
I have a strong feeling she will say "where?" Then I will suggest something and she will again say she doesn't want to. What do I say then if she asks where. I have her number so can I say something like I'll think about it or let her decide?
I had to repeat it twice. She was like "um..." for a couple seconds then said "sure". I was like ok I'll text you later.
So what now? Did I get rejected? Should I wait her to to text me even though I said I'll text her later?
Most Helpful Girl
If she is just shy, you should bluntly ask her out, and if she asks "where" tell her it's her choice. See what she might want to do, if she honestly doesn't like skating or video games.
If she friend zoned you, then she will hesitate to say yes to another date, if you explicitly say it's a date.
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Most Helpful Guy
Hmm... well if i was you i would say "would you like to go on a date with me?" and dont let her decide the place tho... Choose for here but make sure its a place she is sure to like, it will show you put thought into it. Don't give yet pal0