I want to join the airforce. I just finished my bachelor and want to join as an officer. my girlfriend doesn't want me to go. she says she can't be with me if I go. she had an ex that was in the military and she went through a lot of emotional turmoil before breaking up with him.
I want to join. it's my calling. I have always 2anted to join and go all over the world. I did all the tests and I got the airborne linguistics officer. I want to travel and explore this field. but I do love my girlfriend. what should I do. I already have my mind made up but I need to know if what iam doing is right.
Most Helpful Girl
A wise person once told me "Even though it may not be easy, if you're making the right decision, you''ll have peace (internal reassurance) about it. If not, it's not the right choice". It's applicable in almost all situations and it's served me well. That doesn't mean you'll be 'calm' but when you reason things out, you'll be 'reassured'. In every relationship there's conflict and compromise. Obviously your girlfriend is drawn to the army type, I mean, dating two guys who are that way focused one after the other?
You've planned your whole life for this. In the same way you want to respect and cherish her by not going she's not respecting and cherishing you by demanding you give up your life dream. If it's something as simple as just wanting to fly planes there are always commercial airlines, but it sounds like something more than that. Some girls reason things out by talking about them or comparing what they have experienced to what they are experiencing. But you need to keep reminding her that you're not her ex and you're willing to go the extra mile to make things work. Even to the point of considering giving up your long held dream. She needs to work through things and come up with some compromises with you. This is her chance to step up in the relationship. If it's not this it'd be something else too. A relationship can't be about one person. It's a team effort.1
Most Helpful Guy
Follow your dreams bud, time is ticking and u will be regretful in the future for not following your dreams cause you will be old enough to can't do it.
Love is unnecessary feeling, you can find love whenever u want aswell, even at age of 60 but you can't join airforce at that age. Everything has a time.0