I'll just describe him and his actions and any Insight would be super helpful! he's shy but we've been going out for a little over a two months, almost three maybe. We started making out a couple weeks ago and i grind and hump on him and he'll sometime jump back. I give him hickies. He says it feels good and I don't make him uncomfortable but he never touches my butt or holds me tightly while I'm grabbing and pushing him closer to me. I sometimes guide him hands to my body but it always just ends up my his side or on my arm. I just don't understand why he wouldn't be grabbing me too and humping back. Could he be gay? He tells me he loves me but I'm confused. This is my first serious boyfriend by the way so please help
Most Helpful Guy
I used to be exactly like your boyfriend. The reason why I didn't touch the girl? Because no matter how obvious she made things, I didn't get the clue. I felt like if I touched your tit, or inner thigh, or butt, or pussy area, you would scream rape and hate me and send my ass to jail. Yes, I was that stupid back then. That's how I was taught I guess, I don't know. I don't know what made me think that no matter what, I couldn't touch a girl. Unless you said "hey, take out your god damn cock, and fuck me right now!" There is nothing you could do to get me to actually have sex with you. Take my dick out, lay down, pull me, put my dick head INSIDE the vagina... and I would NOT push myself inside her unless she explicitly said "fuck me now." Same goes for touching and all that.
so he might be like me. Which sucks for him. He just needs to learn that "respecting women" does not mean absolutely never touching them unless she says so in clear bold letters lol.0
Most Helpful Girl
Is he a vigin?
If so it's understandable some guys will get nervous, I remember my boyfriend telling me how nervous he was when he lost his virginity to a girl that was already experienced0