I met this girl in my class at college and we had two "dates" already. The first one was coffee for an hour and the second was lunch for 2 hours.
So this morning I asked her bluntly "do you want to go on a date." I said it twice but I know she heard me the first time or maybe she was just surprised. She said when and I said "this weekend or whenever you are free." She said "um..." with a 5 second pause after that then she said "sure". She didn't look happy or exited though. Was she just thinking if she was free this weekend?
I then said ok I'll text you later.
So what now. Was it rejection and am I frienzoned? Should I text her tonight and ask if she is free this weekend? Should I wait till she texts me first? Where should we go? I was thinking of not texting her for a date this weekend since it is Friday already and wait till next weekend for the date so I won't seem needy?
I texted her if she was free on Saturday night and she said she is meeting her boyfriend.
I know she is clearly lying. She could have said she had a boyfriend when I bluntly asked her out on a date instead of saying sure.
Anyways, I won't ask her out again and leave her alone. I sit next to her in class though so should I still talk to her and walk her to her next class like I've been doing for the past month? She seems to like talking to me so I don't know if it was because I rushed it.
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I'd text her ASAP for a date like on Saturday night! Not texting her would mean you made up those original plans and weren't going to execute them which looks bad! She isn't freindzoning you if she said sure; if she said no then she would not like you so she obviously does!1
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