I broke up with my boyfriend recently and there's this guy that I've known for ages and we're going on a date next week, but there's this other guy as well and he's asked me to come out with him on his motorbike the day after. It's not a date but he might get the idea I like him or something, and the thing is I don't want people to NOT think that if I actually do, because I'm not yet exclusive with someone. But then I feel a bit bad because the guy I'm going on a date with probably thinks he's the *only* one!
But don't get me wrong, I wouldn't do anything with anyone at the moment. A kiss would be the furthest it would go, and even then it wouldn't mean we're together of course. I'm just wanting to keep my options open during this dating stage so I can work out who I truly like.
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Yeah I would be really turned off, especially if they had progressed further with the other guys. Like if she's already fucking or exchanging nudes with someone else but she still has me at the non-sexual, paying to take her out stage, then I would lose interest in her completely.