She used to love talking to me, we would talk a lot... I can tell she had some feelings, but she did have a boyfriend at the time.
However she never really told me she had one, I was hurt when I found out and I stopped talking to her, I had feelings for her too.
We kinda patched things up now, Her boyfriend broke up with her a few months ago.
I know she doesn't have those feelings for me anymore, but we don't talk like we used to. She doesn't initiate, she doesn't ask about me... we still joke around... but I feel really hurt that it's not like before, and she lost her feelings.
I tell myself there is nothing I could have done, she had a boyfriend at the time...
I feel hurt, I want to stop feeling hurt. Not sure what to do.
It's clear we are not meant for each other, and she doesn't want to talk about her feelings at all.
So how do I stop the hurt?
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Well with time honestly. Just know that you two are not meant to be. She did have feelings of friendship for you and loved your company but she never saw you as anything more than a freind.
I have been there twice, well almost 3 times. To you it seems like she used you right. She used you to talk to and be freinds with right. When you wanted something more. Sadly that is how women use men. To women having a guy that you can easily talk to with no fear of feelings coming from him is a dream. To her you were her freind with benefits. So many women want just a guy to talk with. That is why they usually have a gay freind.
The best way that I can suggest to get over her is to move on with your life. Focus on you. Do things you enjoy. Work out, eat good food, but yourself a gift. But what will take the pain away is time.
Meeting another girl will come but take your time. Don't rush otherwise your just on the rebound.0