I started dating this girl I've known since highschool I'm 26 years old she is too. It started off great and I asked her to be my girlfriend after a month. After that things went downhill and she broke up with me after 2 weeks. She says because she still has feelings for her ex whom she was with for 5 months and he had to move out of state because of the military and he has a girlfriend down there. She told me she still talks to him and will always be in her life. But she still wants me around and to hang out with her watch movies etc. But no sex and no kissing. When were at the gym and together she gets super jealous if I look or talk to another girl. She states that she just needs me to be her friend right now and she doesn't want to to see other people. I feel as if I'm being hung on a leash obeying all of her commands like a dog. She always calls/texts me first and I've been trying to pull back to see if she would miss me a bit and it somewhat works but then she filps the script I know its all a game and its stupid but want I really wanna know is if I cut her out of my life completely will that make her realize what she has lost and she will let go of the feelings for ex and come crawling back to me? This has all happened in a time period of about 3 months please any advice would help
How do I get this girls affection?
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She's using you, she's getting her cake and gets to eat it too while you go home a jack off to her. You need to tell her that you cannot be friends with her because you think she's an incredible woman and you want more than just a friendship and if she ever changes her mind to let you know. Then go no contact and I mean no contact, no texts for stupid reasons, ignore her texts and calls unless they are specifically about you two getting back together. You should also look to move on with your life and start dating other girls. You're not going to gain anything from sticking around, all you're doing is getting deeper in the friendzone.1
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