everyone has this idea that waiting for sex will equal relationship. for me I think it's backwards, wouldn't you want to have sex with someone you actually want to be with asap? my current girlfriend of a year and half I had sex with on the first date. why? because I really liked her and wanted to be with her asap. even she thought I didn't want a relationship at first.
has anyone ever had sex on the first date and then had a successful relationship? or is that just me?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think there would be no relationship, but I guess it depends on the other person. That's why I like to know their intentions first, so no one waste time. If you wanna hook up on the first date, you tell me that. I won't get angry. However, I need to know if he really interested in me and having a relationship. Otherwise, don't waste my time.1
Most Helpful Guy
Well in my personal experience it always ended up not evolving into anything. I guess you hat to be pretty lucky.0