my boyfriend of a year and a half dated another girl at the same time as me for months. i didn't know until we broke up, but during our relationship he always said he loved me and missed me and always asked if i still loved him or if i saw myself with him in the future. he was always so scared of losing me or hurting me. so i don't understand why he did this, or what provoked him to.
Most Helpful Guy
He saw another girl and was attracted to her. It's that simple. He didn't "Feel the need to cheat" This is what's wrong with the way girls think and I just don't know how to explain it but the question should have been "Why would he cheat if he said he loved me" Maybe it's because you feel like it answers itself and your avoiding the answer.
But I think it's more likely that the reason is because girls don't want to be attractive just because of their looks. It's like a source of insecurity where you don't feel right if that's all they wanted from you and guys don't really understand that.
I think part of the problem is that most girls don't seem to understand just how serialized they are.0
Most Helpful Girl
perhaps he was keeping someone by the side or you by the side just in case one of you left him... that's why he repeatedly asked you if you see you guys together in the future0