Well I am 17 and a friend told me that his best friend (21 years old) liked me last summer. By then I met him and go out with him. One day he told me that he liked me and he wanted to kiss me , I told him that we have only hanged out 1 time and I wanted to know him better. He agreed but he wasn't the same. The next day we hanged out with our friends and his behavior was good. Then he had to leave for a while but we were chatting n fb. When he returned we went out and we kissed (it was my first kiss) and he asked me if I wanted a relationship with him. I told him that I want an open relationship and in the future we would see if it will become more serious. The problem is that he is touching my ass and asked me photos in my bikini and I said no and I think that I am falling in love for him and he maybe expecting more things by me that I can't give to him. sorry for bad English 😒
Most Helpful Guy
We are humans. When we like/love someone, we want to have sex with that person. That's how nature rolls.
You have no obligations to have sex with him. He has no obligations to stick around. Both of you will have to weight whether you are willing to wait for the other or leave. It's up to you to measure how much you want that guy and what you are willing to do to keep him. Same for him. If he decides to leave, it's his prerogative. you will have missed the boat. At the same time, you might want to ask yourself if the boat was really worth taking...1
Most Helpful Girl
You should tell him that. You should tell him to respect your boundaries. You should remind him that you have not dated for a long time in order for you to feel comfortable enough doing that.
You should never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing.1