He looks like my dad, I honestly find it a little revolting. Is it just because I'm shallow (he is a little overweight)? Is looking like my father a valid excuse to reject this guy?
Most Helpful Guy
May I say Oedipus complex (or rather Electra complex)?
Often, girls will look to find their father in their boyfriend. If your father has been a good father to you, why wouldn't you want a boyfriend that shares the same qualities? Though, by your question, I gather that you are talking only about the physical aspect of the guy. If you are not attracted to him, I don't see why it should go any further.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think it is a valid excuse to reject a guy, but I would advice you to get to know him more, because that might just change your mind. But don't feel guilty you rejected him because in the long run it is better to let him know up front instead of stringing him along and messing with his feelings.0