I`ve been getting some F*cked up advice lately about guys and which way I should go with one I am interested in. The other day , I asked him if he was free , he responded very quickly and he seemed enthusiastic that I asked him. He told me he would find out and let me know... and nothing. Its been 4 days ! A few things : If I text him first ( which I have for the last 2 times ) he always responds and pretty quick , we`ve talked on the phone a few times. I know he is busy , but how hard can it be to follow up? . I don't like to text first but lately I have been and my fear is that he thinks I'm desperate and needy. Some say call him ( I refuse ) , others say toss him to the wolves. I honestly don't know which way to go with this guy , he seems interested and happy when I reach out to him but then says nothing. I need advice !!!
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He doesn't respond get back to you on for a date and doesn't proactively text you, it doesn't matter if he likes you or not, he is not going to show it, which is a good as not liking you. I understand busy, you need someone who will take time for you,
On the other hand, when you find someone who will take time for you and treat you like a priority, don't play games with who is going to call who and who is going to text. Be open an honest with that person and expect them to be with you. When you find him, cause I don't think this guy is it.1