I mean its ok if they're family or i'm around but just going out around other men..
i don't like that, it's not because i think she's going to do something dumb, its just, my girlfriend is known for having a big butt, its all everyone talks about
every time we go out other dudes are cat calling, watching her when i'm right there.
even trying to get with her while im out with her, i don't like it at all.
im kinda tired of it.. i mean its every.. single.. time.. we.. go.. out.
i told her i didn't want her around any other men because. if they do all that while im there.. holding her hand..
there's no telling what people will do when i'm not.
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Most Helpful Girl
Thats extremely controlling, and in the end will just be the end of you two because its going to suffocate her. Yes you're insecure i know but you have to learn trust. She survived without you in the picture with all the men cat calling at her, surely she can without you now.
I get cat called a lot every time I go out but it really does nothing to me at all, if they ever start asking for my number I usually say Im taken and/or ignore them.
I know you wanna be protective but you have to give her space, and trust her.0
Most Helpful Guy
If your girlfriend welcomes that and has no problem accepting comments or passes when you are around then she is probably a lot more so when you are not around. The universe tends to unfold as it should and maybe all the cat calling from other men when you are there is trying to tell you something you may not be seeing about her, or possibly there is something about yourself that you are not aware of and it creates a feeling of distrust and jealousy in you.
All I know is that my girlfriend always had men do that when I was not around, when they would ask her out she always said she had a boyfriend. For all I know she flirted with them until they asked her out just so she could. I have no idea, but in public I have caught maybe one or two guys oogle over her or make a lude gesture. Looking the other guys dead in the eye, letting them know that those actions will get them hurt and you could care less if breaking their nose got you beat up or arrested usually keeps them at bay.
If your girlfriend is sending body signals that she isn't happy or things your not masculine enough other guys who are all about the alpha male bull crap will usually play into it, so I would just find out whether its her or you thinking about it too much. If she goes home with you and you are both happy than I wouldn't worry about it because the more they do that the more you know your girlfriend is hot. Telling her not to hang out with other guys will only make her think you are jealous and possessive. If she cheats you will find out about it but you can't accuse her of cheating til it happens, saying words like that will only make her want to cheat.0