In the world of dating, when would you say it is too soon to get emotionally attached to someone? I was seeing a girl for 3 month, spending at least a full day with her every week. She stayed at mine & I met her family. However, she said I got attached too soon! Which makes me ask the question, when is it too soon to feel attachment?
Most Helpful Girl
Well it really all depends if you get emotionally attached too quickly with people overall. And its based on wither or not its healthy or unhealthy. However I always say for people to not get too emotionally attached without making sure that this is the person you want and desire long term and for marriage as well. If not, don't get too comfortable, in case you need to break up from that person. However I say its safe to say with 4-6 months its okay. But you open up little by little and not immediately.
Also you do so at your own pace, and never allow anybody to force you or belittle you because your not doing so as quickly. We don't really know by what she means by you doing it so soon. What I can see by it is when you said that she stayed at your place and you met her family. But the family part really all depends. I do see that its best tell your parents that your looking to date somebody or that you are seeing somebody seriously at the beginning of the relationship once you become official. So it really all depends.1
Most Helpful Guy
I guess Ask yourself what do you know about the other person?
Can you predict how they'll react under different circumstances? do you know their philosophy on child rearing, marriage, and life? Do you know anything about their relationship with their family? have you ever gotten in an argument? how did he/she change when you were arguing?
Another important thing is to match your feelings with the other person. You don't want to be way more or way less attached than they are to you. A one-sided relationship is a nightmare.0