Why do some girls have sex with guys then accuse them of using them?

If they equate sex to exploitation, then they shouldn't have sex to begin with.


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What Girls Said 3

  • Well, if a girl has sex with you because she thinks you love and value each other and then you turn out to just be looking for sex that's a situation where a girl can feel used.

    Or like if you have consensual sex with a girl and then treat her like your penis made her dirty she can feel used.

    There are loooots of situations that happen between people that can make one or both parties feel used. There's not many blanket "everyone shouldn't do X" statements because so few apply to everyone.

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  • Maybe he intentionally led her to believe there was a chance for a relationship so that she would sleep with him. Or, perhaps, she thought it'd be mutually enjoyable and he just rabbit humped and came without trying and she got no pleasure.

    Likewise, people can feel used if you ask them to go somewhere and they come with you for a ride, but don't spend any time talking to you. Or if you're sharing equal expenses on a home, but only one person does all of the housework. Or if you have friends who always come over for a party and drink your beer, but won't help you out of you need a favor with something. Etc.

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  • A girl feels used by a guy when he leads her to believe he genuinely cares about her , and wants a long-term relationship with her , but in reality he is manipulating her feelings just to have sex with her

    She doesn't feel used if she is only with him for sex too.

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What Guys Said 6

  • Because they feel guilty. Many girls aren't really taught to take responsibility for their actions, so if they regret having sex with a guy, they feel better accusing them than actually taking responsibility for screwing up.

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  • Women don't want to make themselves feel ashamed for something so simple and natural as having sex. So they create this absurd victim complex instead of owning up to their desires.

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  • the guy turns out to be a sub 7/10 chad and they are disgusted about their mistakes when drunk and falsely claim rape... brutal truth

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  • Its due to being naive or due to manipulation.

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  • prepare to be either completely ignored or attacked viciously

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  • To summmarize: Women love to play the victim for everything because it makes them feel morally superior.

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