I've known this guys for about 7yrs, he chased me for 5yrs and we have been dating for 2yrs now. Throughout the dating process we would talk a lot n we had our share of problems, mainly him who created them. Im the type of person that if u dnt do anything I would be in a calm mood and no arguing or tlking about a particular situation. For months now we haven't really been talking and i feel he is avoiding me or talking about the problem he cause that I want him to address. Even when we talk regular, he doesn't hit me up or call anymore. He used to say good morning n call during the day and that all stopped. It's always me making the effort to contact him. Now I feel he is avoiding me and maybe someone else is in the picture. He claims he's busy, but i know for a fact people make time for those they care about. I don't know what's going on at this point and I wish things would go back to happy times. What should I do if I'm feeling pushed aside like I meant nothing, probably I didnt? After him chasing me and me finally liking him to now him making me feel like trash and he's playing me, what does all this mean?
After all these years of chasing me and I finally accept, he treats me like trash. Im confused?
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You have given him what he wants... there is no need to chase or do anything. From what your saying, the tables have been turned and your chasing him now. Nomore chasing him. No calling. No txting him. Stop as of right now. He needs to appreciate what he has. And its going to be very hard to do and this is not an easy process, but you must be willing to get him bck and see if its you that he really wants to be with. Go a week without contacting him. Wait for him to contact you. And when you do speak with him and he brings up the fact why haven't you contacted him... well turn around and ask him the same thing. The phone works both ways. Stop chasing him. You will feel much better once you stop doing that, it will take the load off of you. And give you some to really think about the way he is treating you with a level head. I have been through this before and let me tell you it works. Trust me on this. No begging, no crying to him. Nope. He is enjoying you chasing him. Men get a thrill out of that, they dont have to do any more work to keep you around because they can sense your deeply in love.1
I wouldn't say he is treating you like trash - I would say he is expressing a lack of interest and commitment to you - almost as if he is not in a relationship at all. He isn't abusing you but he is being neglectful and forfeiting his role in the relationship. You should break up. I think a lot of guys do that - they like a girl when she is hard to get but once they get her they lose interest.0
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