So he has initiated like all the time but I have only initiated text one time. There have been times when we did not text for like 2 weeks (idk if he was testing me lol..) and he suddenly messages me out of the blue and asks how I am doing. Yesterday we had a really interesting convo and texted for hours. But then our convo ended with me texting "It's okay :)". And he didn't reply back -_-
So do I text him first today? Or wait for him to text me like last time... and no he's not my boyfriend, just an online friend. I feel like I bother him by texting first but at the same time he says he finds me beautiful. So wtf am I supposed to do o. o Message him first?
Most Helpful Guy
"So he has initiated like all the time but I have only initiated text one time"
If all you do is answer questions and talk in two word responses, it's not fun to talk to you.
Someone who can respond and bring up other topics is fun. People should message equally?0
Most Helpful Girl
Does he bother you when he texts first? If not, why do you believe you'd bother him when you text him first?
Don't think so hard and just do it. A friendship is a two-way street, both should do their best to actively maintain the friendship.1