I think my favorite sure fire sign is the ability to avoid public areas. If the guy/ gal wants to hide you there is an issue.
He/ she comes up with pet names and and is a smooth talker.
He/ she is overly mysterious/ vague.
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. Only wants something to do with you at night
. Never met his friends.
. Hides you when he is with you.
. Gives different signs.
. Doesn't keep the convo going
. Friends and family don't know you exsist unless your "friends" if they do he's acts different around them.
. Doesn't make plans.
. Doesn't care to know about you.
. Judges you for minor shit
. Guilt trips you and everything becomes your fault
. He has a lot of girlfriends that he spends the night with or texts and calls them babe...
. He makes sure you don't forget anything.0