I don't find anyone that pursues me attactive. The one time I tried to date someone I didn't find attractive I didn't like to kiss or anything with them. I liked him as a person and he had everything I wanted in a person but there was no physical attraction at all and none formed.
I think it's because of the type of guy I am attracted to: tall, built but not too big and looks like he can protect me, handsome face, nice hair and nice style of dress. The men I've been attracted to all look like this but they're personalities are shit.
I know personality means more than looks but how can I focus on that when I just don't find the man attractive?
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You can have everything that you want but you have to realise that the more specific your requirements are the smaller the target group will become. If I wanted to find a red car I could find a million red cars. If I wanted to find a red car with green interior it would narrow that down by a lot. If I wanted to find a red car with green interior and gold plated rims it would be even more rare again. Not to mention one hell of an ugly looking car, lol!
My point is that the more specific you get the harder it will be to find a match and the longer it will take, but it's still very possible and there is no reason why you should have to compromise. You just need to be realistic and patient.
In the meantime there is no reason why you can't date and have some fun. Every guy doesn't have to be Mr Right or a long term thing.0