Why do guys only want to hook up with me but never want a relationship with me?

I am 25 years old and never had a boyfriend, only a long-term hookup with one guy that didn't work out because we wanted different things. A lot of people my age and older are in relationships, engaged, married and having babies, while I think I am the loser girl that's never had a boyfriend and I feel so embarrassed. I do my best to talk to guys and flirt with them but nothing works. I don't even get asked on dates only by creepy older men. I'm not ugly I am decent looking, dress nice etc.. but no luck whatsoever. I don't want to be alone, it's a scary feeling. I feel like that weird girl that's never had a boyfriend. I've even tried dating sites, and a lot of guys on it want casual relationships and lie on their profiles that they want a normal realtionship. I feel like people judge me that I am single, I used to like being single when I was a teenager it was fun with no care in the world now I care. I don't know what to do. I have so much to offer.


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What Guys Said 3

  • A lot of us have been there. The secret is that people are attracted to people who are having fun and being themselves. I don't know if you've been trying to find a boyfriend, but don't. Hang with your freinds, laugh, have a good time and meet new people. Concentrate on becoming the person you want to be, and on being your normal self, not on a relationship and you will be fighting the the single guys off with Mace ;P

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  • you're the type to hook up with, that has to do with your behaviour not your looks.

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  • I'm sure these a reason but being anonymous isn't helping your case

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