I posted a question a couple days ago about dating and I got several responses saying that I'm screwed and will have to look for like 50+ because no guy will date a girl my age. Is this really true? I do not look anywhere near my age either.
Most Helpful Guy
As a woman it's going to pretty difficult not going to lie. You are most likely going to have to rely on online dating. I'm not one of those delusional guys who think they never age and they in their prime in their 40s... but it's pretty well known that men have more dating value as we age in comparison to women. There are plenty of dating websites that are tailored towards people in their 30s and 40s though.0
Most Helpful Girl
What people tell you is just advice not something you should do. You take in what you feel benefits you most and the rest you forget.
There are many things that contribute to having luck in the dating world from appearances being the top on the list followed by personality and how you project yourself onto others, what you're doing with your life and if you still live with your parents. it all could make a difference in the outcome of your efforts in trying to find someone.
I get asked out by guys who are not even 21 yet thinking I'm much younger and even when they find out I'm much older they still don't care. And I'm sure I get asked out more than younger girls who look older than me because they probably think they are old.
34 is not old, depending on how you look at it. My advice is to take care of your health and appearance. Don't give up on what you want, if you want to be with someone even if you fail, keep trying until you find someone. Remember Older people get divorced all the time and still remarry later and they tend to be much older than 34, so of course you can find someone.1