I'm 24 and never had a relationship. I usually start dwelling on it in the winter for some reason.
I always let my financial situation prevent me from getting to know people. I just can't bring myself to the idea of dating if I don't even have a career (or struggling so hard with my current career). And I am struggling with my own self too much to be concerned about dating. But I am getting old. :(
On top of everything, my dad died this year so it's the first holiday season without him and generally everything is shitty so I have that feeling where I could use a little love from someone.
Most Helpful Guy
There's no time like the present, and it is cuffing season after all so it shouldn't be too hard to find someone to spend time with. What I think is a bigger issue than dating is that you say you have a hard time being yourself around others. Get out there, sit in bars with freinds, talk to randoms, that sort of thing. If you can't be yourself around others, how do you expect the guy you're after to know who you really are?0
Most Helpful Girl
Story of my life! Never been in a relationship either, and I'm 26. Even though I was pursued by/pursued guys I liked, a few time, things didn't work out.
I know how you feel girl! :(0