I know the "norm" is to let the guy pursue the girl, but what if the girl is really head over heels for a guy and wants to pursue him? What should she do in this scenario?
Most Helpful Guy
Go for it. That's less effort on our part.
I don't understand why feminists (not all) want equality yet still expect men to do all the initiation and work. Not that this is bashing women but if you like someone, just go for it. Worst that will happen is the guy will say no just like us men have to deal with.3
Most Helpful Girl
It is based on society and historic rules, but there is nothing wrong with being the one who pursues the guy, just be careful not to look desperate.1