I'm not that pretty and i like him. but of course i get nervous every time he's around, I just try to look busy talking with my friends and i try to laugh and look cheerful in front of him. Is that enough to make him notice me? :(
by the way, i don't know him very well and we didn't talk that much.. i just see him everyday when I go to work.
Most Helpful Guy
Ok, for starters, 95% of looks is absolutely controllable. Even for men. When it comes to women even just ONE tiny change like hairstyle can turn a 5/10 into a 7/10. Do 100 easy things and you are a 9 or a DIME. So if you are saying you are not pretty then I'm going to assume that you are not into enhancing physical appearance because it's not your thing. Ok, that's fine.
Now to your question. It is not fair to sit around and make tiny hints and just hope that a guy runs over to you. It is completely fine to make much more direct hints. Looking cheerful is nothing. Basically you are liked a random guy and you are expecting him to be a mind reader or luckily hit on a random girl for no reason and it happens to be you.
Do more than that PLEASE.
Secondly, If you are not pretty and that is a problem with him then he's not your type anyway because you are not into that kind of thing. right? not your loss!4
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Most Helpful Girl
I certainly know this feeling all too well. Honestly, who gives a shit. A well worthwhile guy will not rely on looks.
Be you, you amazing person. Show off who you are, smart or funny or sweet.
Don't think because you're not society's version of pretty that you aren't someone else's definition of beautiful.
If a guy is worth it, he'll like you for you. You just gotta give him a peek into what you're truly like.1