Im serious, im not gonna last much longer. Asking girls out is too hard and women say no more than they say yes. I've heard every excuse known to man about why they can't show up to one date. Why do so many women flake, not respond back, not give a guy a chance, not reply to email messages, refuse sex, and are just plain mean? What happened to u women, why dont you behave more like women did in the past? Why are so many mean, picky, rude, dont reply, independent, and not feminine? How do i fix this at this pt?
Girls, Dear women: Do u care about the effects rejection have on men?
What Girls Said 5
Most of us do care , we generally dont wnt to reject you. On the other hand, we don't owe you a date because you asked, though in my opinion we do you enough respect to be polite in rejection. There are some guys though that don't accept politeness in rejection, they keep pushing and they can get mean as well. So, while im not saying you have it easy, there are reasons some may not be as kind as what you might expect. And some are just rude as well.
I am not obligated to give you sex, i do not owe that to you. I do not need to give you a chance, i only need to give you a clear, not mean rejection.0
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sometimes, yes. We hate to hurt anybody, especially our friend.
and also, there's some cases where the rejected men are not satisfied, avenge by doing bad things to a girl, some cases in Asia - splash with acid, rape/kill, and even worse, done black magic to the girl (yesss, it's still exist)
so, we the lady really2 need to be calm and make the rejection as cool as possible to avoid that kind of thing0
I don't get why men get so upset about being turned down for a date, when they see nothing wrong with dating a woman, spending time with her, having sex with her and then dumping her - and we're not supposed to get upset because 'we weren't even official'.
But to answer the questions, yes we feel a bit bad that you'll feel rejected, which is why we try to be nice about it, and suggest being friends etc.
As for being picky and not replying, not giving you a chance, etc, it simply means we're not interested. Would you go on a date/have sex with a woman you didn't find attractive? No, of course not. So don't expect us to do it, no offence.2
Well I can see why no girls want to date u, u think u own us for just a simple act of kindness. We don't have to say yes. Keep in mind that girls get ask out by MANY guys. The guys in the streets that see girls as meat, guys that are nice but only are nice expecting to have something in return, guys that have no confident in them, guys that flirt only to flirt, guys that only want a girl so he isn't alone ext. U are competing a lot here but with ur attitude then u are not getting any and don't be surprised about it. The problem here is that women are evolutionaring and men are not, we don't only take care of the house and are seen as objects for men. while men can keep their egos of owning the money, land and the girl.
The girls are not the problem in this equation u are. There is something u are doing (in ur persona like maybe confidence or arrogant that makes the girl sense the "oh shit another of these guys again")3
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