Do guys think about the things they do and how it would affect a girl they are with or really rocking with for the time being? Do they even care if it hurts them and if so, why don't they do something about it?
Do guys realize how they affect girls?
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Men and women are VERY different, and we have different priorities and perspectives. Some things that I bet, deep down in your mind, you are SURE that guys MUST feel just like you do about - they actually don't. You've only ever been a female, with a female's perspective, so it's hard for you to understand a male's perspective (and it's no easier for guys to understand a girl's perspective either!).
But to answer your question: mostly NO, they don't realize it. Most guys probably can't grasp the depth of the feelings that girls often have, or the complexity of those feelings. Guys' feelings are generally simple, and can be expressed using single, ogre-like words: hungry, sleepy, horny, bored, angry, happy. Women need PARAGRAPHS (at least) to explain their feelings in all their many layers, and guys just don't understand - it's too complicated for us and we lose interest.
That doesn't make us bad or good - just VERY DIFFERENT.
This was NOT an easy set of ideas for me to accept either, but when I finally did so in my early 20s, my relationships with women improved dramatically. When I stopped expecting them to want the things I wanted and think the way I thought, and learned how different the female perspective really was, I began relating to women differently and had different expectations from them (realistic ones!), and things were much, much easier.
Guys are MUCH simpler than girls - far more simple than most women can easily accept - but once you DO accept that truth, and recalibrate your expectations of us, you too will have a much easier time dealing with the opposite sex.2
It depends on the guy and it depends on the girl. Some girls and guys look for different things. Some girls and guys, look for and enjoy one night stands. Some girls and guys like a steady sexual relationship but when attachment comes, they bolt. Some girls and guys do not like to be bolted down, they like the freedom to live as they please. Examples of this include r3.cltampa.com/.../...fuck_buddy_movie_posters.jpg Now if you are referencing something different, men don't feel emotions like women do. It is a blessing and a curse. So in a way, we don't know how we affect girls. Our limited emotional base can only get us so far. Now some men are just jerks, plain and simple but some men can't achieve full emotional awareness. Sometimes we think we know how to handle relationships, current or break ups, the truth is, sometimes we don't. Our mind is limited to our own thoughts of how we think it will turn out, but the fact is, our mind is now the mind of what girls go through.. does that help or make any since?1
Guys think about things as much as girls think about things, we just might think about different things in different ways at times. Girls are just as capable of being cold, hurtful, inconsistent and cruel. For every jerk of a guy there is a jerk of a girl out there. Being a dick is a human problem, not a gender issue.2
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I have never affected a woman.0
yes but we don't care, most women like loud obnoxious turds0
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