Help!! What do I do? Is he using me or is he really serious?

So I've been talking to this guy for a little over a month now. From the beginning he told me he wasn't sure he was ready for anything serious because he doesn't want to hurt either of us, and he wants to work on improving himself before diving into something. I'm catching feelings and am infatuated with him, I want a relationship. What should I do?


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  • Nah, he knows what he wants and if he doesn't know it pretty soon, then it's not likely. Get some other guy who is really into you. This guy will ditch you whenever he feels like it. He warned you, now he's free to do what he wants without guilt

  • Just be patient with him let him sort out what he needs to sort out


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