I feel quite stupid.
So I have this friend on internet, we have been chatting over half a year now. Today I met him in real life. The problem is: I thought that it will be just a simple hangout, but later it turned out, that it was actually a date. The thing is, I realized, that I don't like him in any way (I don't even really wanna be friends), because he's quite different in real life. Few months ago I briefly dated a really great guy, that I was really attracted to, but unfortunately it didn't lasted. So, when this guy tried to kiss me, I let him, because I wanted to see how I felt about it. It was awful, because I felt nothing, comparing to the last guy, and in that moment I realized, that I will never like him. I was just not feeling it, we were just not connecting. The worst part is, I let him kiss me few more times, that now I greatly regret, because, he probably thought that I liked him. I felt weird vibe coming from him, so I was afraid to tell him that I don't like him in that way, because we were out of town in his car and he made few "jokes", that he might leave me there.
I got myself into really uncomfortable situation. I know that he liked me, but I need to tell him how I feel. I don't want to see him, or meet him ever again.
Just how do I tell him that gently?
How do I put this gently?
I feel quite stupid.
What Guys Said 2
I don't know what you're told him but you could try saying that you're sorry but you're still not over your ex and you need some time for yourself.0
Basically just say something like I had fun, but you don't see it going past that date. Good luck, it was nice meeting you...0
What Girls Said 4
Hey wats over there? SMOKE BOMB NINJA-RUN DAFUQ OUTTA THERE.
at least that's what Teenage mutant ninja turtles taught me. :(1
i don't understand people asking if its a date or like in your case saying 'oh i did not realize it was a date;'.
its only a date if BOTH people want a date. you are never accidently on a date. if you just want to hang out then just hang out and say so for %^&# sake.0
THere's no being "gentle" about it. The best thing you can do for him and you is to be polite but direct and dont draw it out. You owe that to him0
You don't have to be gentle if you're not gonna be friends with him. You either tell him the truth or you cease all communication with him at once.0
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