I know it's because they don't want to be tied down, but what are the reasons specifically only wanting to be friends with benefits and why they avoid comittment?
Most Helpful Guy
why do chicks "not have time"... the day is made of time. i can hear baby kittens dying when girls say that. everything girls have to deal with in guys, guys have to deal with in girls. and there are more girls than guys.
u set the standards, why would they want to change them after u already let them have what they want. u are kind of being stupid at that point. u have to be clear from the get go u only want a relationship and won't play around with anything else and want them to leave if they are going to try.
im a guy and obviously people i would keep around me are at least fractions of my personality. but they either want to just have fun for the night, or they want a relationship. there is not really a middle. and while i won't say there are not people who just want fun, i think there are more guys who want relationships and girls who just want fun myself. NOW HERE IS THE HUMOROUS part... statistically, u have more sex in a relationship than not. so these people who want fun are being stupid about it lol... goes to show.0
Most Helpful Girl
Mostly, bc they have been hurt by 1 chick who they really loved so now they just want to have fun without any commitments so they won't be hurt again. A way of protection which is selfish but they will not admit that is why. Its alike a wall that they put up to never feel the pain that love can bring. Other reasons... dont really like women and think thats all they are good for, not financilly stable too is a big and if they are really young like in there 20s, they just want to play and get it all out there systems while getting there life together then will settle when they are ready emotionally and financially1